When done properly, anal can be quite magical. Try getting to know yourself first. Anal sex is a hot topic these days. Gigi Engle is a sex educator and writer living in Chicago. If it hurts, stop entirely and take a break.
When done properly, anal can be quite magical.
25 Tips to Enjoy Anal Sex From Someone Who Loves It
The anus is not a muscle that naturally stretches to allow objects inside of it. And you absolutely must switch condoms in between vaginal and anal penetration. It may seem counterintuitive, but it is critical for enjoyable play. The person receiving the anal stimulation should always, always, always be in control. The show doesn't go on to correct this sexist remark, as Mindy has to take a heavy sedative later on to give it another try. The anus needs to be trained to accommodate large butt plugs and penises. If you're shy or scared, use dark sheets to keep things from getting too weird looking later.